Angela, just my opinion, but if you're eligible for income assistance
you need to take advantage of it. It's there for you. If you're
having trouble paying rent or eating, just take it. Maybe your
husband will get off your back if you have a little extra money coming
in. Hope that doesn't sound harsh, just trying to help. I wish the
best for you.
Hugs,
Carol
--- In depression-anxiety@
wrote:
>
> I am starting counseling pretty soon. It was really hard to get it, I
> have practically no money (its often a toss up whether I pay my rent
> or buy food) and all the charites I could find offered it to people
> under 18, or people on income support (Im eligible, just refuse to
> except it) but I have found a charity that will pay for it for me. My
> friend is also trying to get me listed as a vulnerable person, which I
> REALLY don't want.
>
> --- In depression-anxiety@
> <b.r.edwards@
> >
> > yep listen to my nurse Carol
> >
> >
> > ccamrine <ccamrine@> wrote:
> > Bill's right, I hope you're getting counseling. You need
> to get these
> > feelings out.
> >
> > --- In depression-anxiety@
> > <b.r.edwards@
> > >
> > > Wow you poor sweet girl, I hope your getting counceling, and no one
> > will be mad at you for making a choice for your life here. Many here
> > have been threw your hell here. My heart goes out to you for what you
> > have endured.
> > >
> > > Angela <blerkythedog@
> > my parents. Basically, my mother spent all
> > > her working life caring for children who screamed, and cried, and
> > > wouldnt eat. Then, shed get home to a child who did the same,
and just
> > > left me. My father, was physically abusive towards me, and I suspect
> > > everyone else (although only my sister admits it). Then, only a few
> > > years ago, I was beaten until I was knocked out, then raped, by my
> > > boyfriend. two months later, I found out I was pregnant, and (dont
> > > hate me for this) I had an abortion.
> > >
> > > --- In depression-anxiety@
> > > <b.r.edwards@
> > > >
> > > > It's why we are here hun, shoot, we all share here.
> > > >
> > > > Angela <blerkythedog@
> > > suggestions, I will try them, and if they
> > > > do not work, I will still appreciate it because it makes me feel
> cared
> > > > for that someone is trying. I think I would like to tell the group
> > > > about some of the things that caused my problems, if anyone
wants to
> > > > listen?
> > > >
> > > > --- In depression-anxiety@
> > > > <restless_darkness_
> > > > >
> > > > > angela,
> > > > >
> > > > > i was thinking that maybe if you told yourself what others had
> > > > said to you in the past to make you feel better, then maybe you
> could
> > > > calm yourself down when you start having a flash back.
> > > > >
> > > > > as i've said, i've never experienced flash backs but i do have
> > > > depression. i know that changing your thoughts will change how you
> > > > feel. don't get me wrong : i'm not saying that all you have to
do is
> > > > think happy thoughts and you're life will suddenly be peachy.
> i'm just
> > > > mean that usually we have some degree of control over how much
> things
> > > > bother us.
> > > > >
> > > > > maybe you could start imagining your brother's voice when you
> > > > begin to have a flash back. i'm sure imagining a comforting voice
> > > > won't help you the first couple of times you do it but if you
> continue
> > > > to try it might start helping. i don't see how it could hurt.
> > > > >
> > > > > if trying to imagine a soothing voice doesn't work, what about
> > > > soothing music ? you wouldn't have to imagine it provided you
could
> > > > have a portable music player with you. during the times you
> can't have
> > > > music with you, what if you had something you can touch - like a
> charm
> > > > of some sort, something that has a lot of meaning for you or
> > > > symbolizes something you believe in very strongly.
> > > > >
> > > > > i'm obviously just tossing ideas out, but i don't mean to sound
> > > > like i'm blaming you for your flash backs; i don't mean to imply
> that
> > > > at all. it's just mean that if you've managed to be calmed down
> in the
> > > > past while having one, then the source of your flash backs can be
> > > > manipulated to some extent - so that they're not always as
intense.
> > > > >
> > > > > ~hope
> > > > >
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