I dont have a husband, I live alone. I am just worried that the second
I start to draw attention to myself, too many questions will be asked.
I also feel kind of bad claiming when I have a job and everything. I
don't know when I am next going to eat though, in my kitchen theres
half a pint of milk, a little bit of jam, a bag of crisps, and a few
pasta spirals. oh, and a bag of dog food, but i dont quite fancy that.
I am really just waiting until i will be allowed to go and live with
my friend in San Fransico again.
--- In depression-anxiety@
wrote:
>
> Angela, just my opinion, but if you're eligible for income assistance
> you need to take advantage of it. It's there for you. If you're
> having trouble paying rent or eating, just take it. Maybe your
> husband will get off your back if you have a little extra money coming
> in. Hope that doesn't sound harsh, just trying to help. I wish the
> best for you.
>
> Hugs,
> Carol
>
>
> --- In depression-anxiety@
> wrote:
> >
> > I am starting counseling pretty soon. It was really hard to get it, I
> > have practically no money (its often a toss up whether I pay my rent
> > or buy food) and all the charites I could find offered it to people
> > under 18, or people on income support (Im eligible, just refuse to
> > except it) but I have found a charity that will pay for it for me. My
> > friend is also trying to get me listed as a vulnerable person, which I
> > REALLY don't want.
> >
> > --- In depression-anxiety@
> > <b.r.edwards@
> > >
> > > yep listen to my nurse Carol
> > >
> > >
> > > ccamrine <ccamrine@> wrote:
> > > Bill's right, I hope you're getting counseling. You need
> > to get these
> > > feelings out.
> > >
> > > --- In depression-anxiety@
> > > <b.r.edwards@
> > > >
> > > > Wow you poor sweet girl, I hope your getting counceling, and
no one
> > > will be mad at you for making a choice for your life here. Many here
> > > have been threw your hell here. My heart goes out to you for
what you
> > > have endured.
> > > >
> > > > Angela <blerkythedog@
> > > my parents. Basically, my mother spent all
> > > > her working life caring for children who screamed, and cried, and
> > > > wouldnt eat. Then, shed get home to a child who did the same,
> and just
> > > > left me. My father, was physically abusive towards me, and I
suspect
> > > > everyone else (although only my sister admits it). Then, only
a few
> > > > years ago, I was beaten until I was knocked out, then raped, by my
> > > > boyfriend. two months later, I found out I was pregnant, and (dont
> > > > hate me for this) I had an abortion.
> > > >
> > > > --- In depression-anxiety@
> > > > <b.r.edwards@
> > > > >
> > > > > It's why we are here hun, shoot, we all share here.
> > > > >
> > > > > Angela <blerkythedog@
> > > > suggestions, I will try them, and if they
> > > > > do not work, I will still appreciate it because it makes me feel
> > cared
> > > > > for that someone is trying. I think I would like to tell the
group
> > > > > about some of the things that caused my problems, if anyone
> wants to
> > > > > listen?
> > > > >
> > > > > --- In depression-anxiety@
> > > > > <restless_darkness_
> > > > > >
> > > > > > angela,
> > > > > >
> > > > > > i was thinking that maybe if you told yourself what others had
> > > > > said to you in the past to make you feel better, then maybe you
> > could
> > > > > calm yourself down when you start having a flash back.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > as i've said, i've never experienced flash backs but i do have
> > > > > depression. i know that changing your thoughts will change
how you
> > > > > feel. don't get me wrong : i'm not saying that all you have to
> do is
> > > > > think happy thoughts and you're life will suddenly be peachy.
> > i'm just
> > > > > mean that usually we have some degree of control over how much
> > things
> > > > > bother us.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > maybe you could start imagining your brother's voice when you
> > > > > begin to have a flash back. i'm sure imagining a comforting
voice
> > > > > won't help you the first couple of times you do it but if you
> > continue
> > > > > to try it might start helping. i don't see how it could hurt.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > if trying to imagine a soothing voice doesn't work, what about
> > > > > soothing music ? you wouldn't have to imagine it provided you
> could
> > > > > have a portable music player with you. during the times you
> > can't have
> > > > > music with you, what if you had something you can touch - like a
> > charm
> > > > > of some sort, something that has a lot of meaning for you or
> > > > > symbolizes something you believe in very strongly.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > i'm obviously just tossing ideas out, but i don't mean to
sound
> > > > > like i'm blaming you for your flash backs; i don't mean to imply
> > that
> > > > > at all. it's just mean that if you've managed to be calmed down
> > in the
> > > > > past while having one, then the source of your flash backs
can be
> > > > > manipulated to some extent - so that they're not always as
> intense.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > ~hope
> > > > > >
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