Hi Kayla, I hope you didn't think I was picking on you either. I know
your dilemma. It's so comforting to have such a good friend like Zach
during a time like this for you. I think it's great that he's such a
good friend to you. But I just think if you two are going to spend so
much time together and have the feelings you have for each other, you
should make it official, you know what I mean? No other girlfriend
for him. As for those feelings of insecurity, I know those feelings
all too well. Over the years I have tried to overcome those feelings
and take on a different attitude about it. With practice it can
happen. That's something else you can talk to your therapist about.
I hope you have a great weekend and I wish you the best.
Carol
--- In depression-anxiety@
wrote:
>
> haha thanks. thing is...that's my problem. I have really bad trust
> issues and right now I'm in no hurry to fix them. I've been left by A
> LOT of men for something they view as "better" and my father is a
> swinger. I'm not very good at trusting men. No offense (please don't
> take offense, I realize its a sweeping generalization and it's wrong
> but it's a lot of work to fix). I always think that men will want
> something else. I'm not sure that human nature says we should be
> loyal. I really don't know. There are a lot of relationship issues I
> have. I've been hurt so many times that more or less I just wait for
> the end of a relationship. I know thats a self-fulfilling prophecy but
> it hurts less if you're expecting it. Maybe it's that I don't believe
> that I'm enough to keep any guy satisfied on my own? And that hurts
> worse than being single. There are a lot of stories and reasons I
> won't go in to. But I appreciate the advice, I'm trying :)
>
>
>
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